Number of posts : 341 Age : 30 Registration date : 2010-09-13
Subject: Re: Random Discussion Thread IV Tue Apr 24, 2012 3:57 am
some japanese websites are blocking me cause i have a canadian ip, anyone know a good web proxy/proxy list idc
bakes991 Admin
Number of posts : 4561 Location : Losing my mind on the internet. Registration date : 2008-12-11
Subject: Re: Random Discussion Thread IV Tue Apr 24, 2012 5:17 am
Okay, I really need to stop going to sleep at 4-6 in the morning... Hate waking up at 1-3 everyday -_-
Keiichi Nakamura Pedobear
Number of posts : 341 Age : 30 Registration date : 2010-09-13
Subject: Re: Random Discussion Thread IV Tue Apr 24, 2012 6:33 am
Why not, I would love to be in your situation lol
bakes991 Admin
Number of posts : 4561 Location : Losing my mind on the internet. Registration date : 2008-12-11
Subject: Re: Random Discussion Thread IV Tue Apr 24, 2012 6:43 am
TheLoliBrigade wrote:
Why not, I would love to be in your situation lol
Feels like a waste of a day to me lol, then again, I don't do anything, so it was going to be a waste anyways -_-
Jake_Ace Solstice Legend
Number of posts : 2800 Age : 29 Location : Rumford, Maine Registration date : 2009-09-25
Subject: Re: Random Discussion Thread IV Tue Apr 24, 2012 11:17 am
Sorry about my rage quit last friday, My last nerve was struck. I Just need to get away from it for a while. it's just not fun for me anymore and it's just become a headache. I didn't want to leave here for good, I just think it's best for me to take a leave of duty. I shouldn't have done it like that and I know I've rubbed some of you guys the the wrong way.
I always wanted to do the best for this place but I've just been edgy lately from my life and the standings crap. I just can't balance baseball, school, and admining anymore. I'm not asking for my admin back(I revoked it myself BTW) I just wanted a break from it. I knew I would crack eventually. Like Caleb told me "you gotta have a steel head to do this" and obviously I haven't had that lately. I know some of you are like "ya way to quit then come back in 2 days" but I needed to just get off for a while and cool off before I made even more of a fool of myself, I had no intentions on quitting completely. I'll still race now and then but I don't want to be too serious anymore. Maybe I'll help out again during the summer if you guys want.
I'm also sorry about Timmy coming over here, I told him not to but he got mad when he heard dan was talking shit about THM
Matt_Emerson29 Moderator
Number of posts : 1823 Registration date : 2010-06-21
Subject: Re: Random Discussion Thread IV Tue Apr 24, 2012 11:30 am
anybody tried this game out, i keep seeing stuff for it and looks pretty good
Shawn_82 Moderator
Number of posts : 849 Age : 29 Location : Ontario, Canada Registration date : 2009-12-05
Subject: Re: Random Discussion Thread IV Tue Apr 24, 2012 1:36 pm
Glad to hear Jake. I know what it feels like to be overwhlemed with stuff and not to turn it on me but I wish I could just sit back and take a breather like you. Sometimes you're going to be in deep water and all you need is another breath to get back into it. Good on you, no respect lost.
Side note about me, Just tonight, I wrote to a youtuber WoodysGamertag https://www.youtube.com/user/WoodysGamertag. He has a feature on Monday called Mail Mondays, where he takes questions from users and gives advice / his opinion on things. Most of it is teenage stuff like sex, lasting longer, relationships, but there's some serious stuff too. I highly recommend you all watch his videos and if you're interested in COD commentaries he's great for that too. Anyway, I wrote to him about my situation I'm going through right now with Chloe. It's a much calmer message than what I've written on here over the past little while, so if any of you care enough I would appreciate if you read what I had to say. I feel like I'm a good writer and can get the reader to view my opinion good.
Spoiler:
Hey Woody. Some quick back-story on me. I have never been interested in COD or any first person shooters, your channel was linked to me by a friend of mine who said I should watch your mail Mondays. And now I have something to look forward to every Monday, thank you very much, I love your advice/opinion pieces
Now for the question.. (I will try to keep it as short as possible, but a fair warning I can write a lot :$)
I am a 17 year old male, Grade 11 high school student (I’m from Canada btw). I have watched pretty much all of your mail Monday videos. Most involve sex, bullies, jobs, parents, and most of all relationships. A lot are standard how do I ask out girl x and stuff, which is really really helpful and your advice is amazing, but that's all the happy puppy love beginning. What about the end? I feel like the aftermath should be apart too, it would greatly help me and a bunch of others too I’m sure Feel free to edit this down a lot for Mail Monday if you choose to feature it, but I feel like the back-story is important.
So my life was at an all time low from June-October. To summarize quickly, I got dumped in June, I got over her fast but it still sucked. I race go karts, and being from a lower class family it's tough on our finances (in and out of debt), and I had terrible luck and got injured mid August. When I got back from that entire week of racing, my uncle who had cancer passed away the day I got back. School started in September, and my first period teacher was a bitch to understate, and I wasn’t doing as well as I would have hoped in my classes, so school wasn’t as enjoyable. Then out of nowhere, my grandma passed away the day after her 79th birthday, I never got to say goodbye or tell her I love her, and that really hurt. She was my last-and only grandparent I have ever met. I was pretty depressed, it was a lot for me to handle. Late October I got invited to a party a bunch of my friends were going to. I didn’t really know a lot of the girls that were going, so I knew it would be fun to meet new people. In the days leading up to that party I told a bunch of my friends “I want to get really drunk, and reset my life”. Probably not the greatest way to think, but we teenagers don’t think the best lol. Lo and behold that is exactly what happened…
While drunk, this girl and I who I had never talked to before started talking, and we hit it off. It was great, granted we were both drunk, but we connected really well and I remember getting hugs and holding her hand (such a thug I know). Her name is Chloe, a cute quiet girl who I have always known to be quite the good looker (the girl holding the drink in this pic, taken that night actually http://a1.sphotos.ak.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ak-ash4/304087_2428977597853_1053967023_2818711_1736605125_n.jpg ). She is a really shy girl to people she doesn’t know, and that night seemed like a glimpse into the potential future. To make a long story short, we started talking a lot and we got to know each other really well, and most importantly we got along really well. We had a similar taste in music which blew me away, I got along well with her friends and likewise her to mine, everything was perfect. The day I finally asked her out was the greatest day of my life. We both got our first kisses out on her balcony at around midnight; it was fairytale perfect, way more than I could have ever dreamed of. Everything was great, we would spend time together at school when we could, outside of school, hang out every weekend and do stuff with her friends, one of my good friends started dating Chloe’s best friend, so that was fun. Her mom loved me and I got along with her grandparents and sisters great. Everything was absolutely perfect. Christmas, New Years, my birthday in January, Valentine’s Day, and just normal week days or weekends, everything was perfect. I felt like I really loved her, and wanted to tell her that soon. I never had to pretend to be someone else or pretend to like the things she liked. I was 100% comfortable and myself 24/7. I was genuinely interested in her and she felt the same towards me, or so I thought.
(Sorry this is getting so long)
She called me one day in early March and asked if we could talk, I didn’t want to think it was what the normal “we need to talk” sort of thing. She said that stuff has been really stressful with her, but I can’t remember exactly what she said. She’s a very busy girl, looking after her grandma, mom, sister at the time, work, involved in numerous school activities, a tough semester class wise, she was under a lot of stress and I knew and respected that, I wanted her to feel as I was an escape, not something that added more. She said she wanted to talk about it more, which made me think “okay, she wants to work out whatever this problem is, no problem ”. Well unfortunately I was wrong. We had a long conversation over the phone, and she broke up with me. It was a lot of silence because I didn’t know what to say back to her. When the phone call ended, I felt devastated. The high I was on got stronger the longer we were dating and it felt like out of the blue it was gone. Then my “friends” made light of the situation, which really pissed me off even more, one said “now you can finally get laid” on my facebook relationship status once I put it back to single. I deleted it as soon as I saw it but I'm sure a bunch of people saw it in the 15 minutes leading up to me deleting it. The girl of my dreams broke up with me, and I'm heartbroken.
Sorry for the very excessive back-story Woody, but here is my real situation. I’m heartbroken. It’s been over a month since she broke up with me, and I miss her every day. All the people I’ve talked to have said “it will get better in time”, and I agree with that, but so far I feel like no progress has been made. Chloe and I have talked since, but because she’s not a very emotionally open person I don’t get a lot of stuff out and I feel like our conversations are me blabbering on and her saying the same stuff. I miss her, but I’m not looking for her to take me back, our relationship is over. She said that she feels bad that I'm so heartbroken and I really do believe her. I’ve tried to put it out of my head as much as possible but it’s hard when some of the assholes I hang out with bring it up and make jokes, or I see her at school and she doesn’t really look at me. She’s not a bitch, she’s a very mature person who I looked up to (and still do). I want to get over my feelings for her, they haven’t faded and I still dream about her almost every night. She said when I'm ready to be friends that she’s there, and I’m really thankful for that. But it’s hard to talk to her when I'm still in love with her. I want to get over her and be able to talk to her how we used to and go back to being friends, she’s such an amazing person, I never want her out if my life. She is responsible for making my life the best it’s ever been, and I really hate myself for being like this the past month and a bit. I’ve tried dealing with it in a few different ways, and as of recently I’ve had a REALLY short temper. I'm normally a calm mannered person but this has taken up a large amount of space in my head and I have no tolerance for anything it seems anymore. I've gotten in heated arguments with my parents, my grades have been slipping, which has lead to me not being very happy with myself. Please Woody, I would really appreciate your opinion on this situation, I have been meaning to write to you for a while about this, any response-mail Monday or just personal would be very much appreciated Sorry for the long message again, I hope you don’t mind
AuzGrams Moderator
Number of posts : 1514 Age : 30 Location : Heber City, UT Registration date : 2010-05-15
Subject: Re: Random Discussion Thread IV Tue Apr 24, 2012 2:05 pm
Few people can't connect to TS.
Shawn_82 Moderator
Number of posts : 849 Age : 29 Location : Ontario, Canada Registration date : 2009-12-05
Subject: Re: Random Discussion Thread IV Tue Apr 24, 2012 2:11 pm
Sorry to repost, I don't want this to be glazed over (:
Shawn_82 wrote:
Glad to hear Jake. I know what it feels like to be overwhlemed with stuff and not to turn it on me but I wish I could just sit back and take a breather like you. Sometimes you're going to be in deep water and all you need is another breath to get back into it. Good on you, no respect lost.
Side note about me, Just tonight, I wrote to a youtuber WoodysGamertag https://www.youtube.com/user/WoodysGamertag. He has a feature on Monday called Mail Mondays, where he takes questions from users and gives advice / his opinion on things. Most of it is teenage stuff like sex, lasting longer, relationships, but there's some serious stuff too. I highly recommend you all watch his videos and if you're interested in COD commentaries he's great for that too. Anyway, I wrote to him about my situation I'm going through right now with Chloe. It's a much calmer message than what I've written on here over the past little while, so if any of you care enough I would appreciate if you read what I had to say. I feel like I'm a good writer and can get the reader to view my opinion good.
Spoiler:
Hey Woody. Some quick back-story on me. I have never been interested in COD or any first person shooters, your channel was linked to me by a friend of mine who said I should watch your mail Mondays. And now I have something to look forward to every Monday, thank you very much, I love your advice/opinion pieces
Now for the question.. (I will try to keep it as short as possible, but a fair warning I can write a lot :$)
I am a 17 year old male, Grade 11 high school student (I’m from Canada btw). I have watched pretty much all of your mail Monday videos. Most involve sex, bullies, jobs, parents, and most of all relationships. A lot are standard how do I ask out girl x and stuff, which is really really helpful and your advice is amazing, but that's all the happy puppy love beginning. What about the end? I feel like the aftermath should be apart too, it would greatly help me and a bunch of others too I’m sure Feel free to edit this down a lot for Mail Monday if you choose to feature it, but I feel like the back-story is important.
So my life was at an all time low from June-October. To summarize quickly, I got dumped in June, I got over her fast but it still sucked. I race go karts, and being from a lower class family it's tough on our finances (in and out of debt), and I had terrible luck and got injured mid August. When I got back from that entire week of racing, my uncle who had cancer passed away the day I got back. School started in September, and my first period teacher was a bitch to understate, and I wasn’t doing as well as I would have hoped in my classes, so school wasn’t as enjoyable. Then out of nowhere, my grandma passed away the day after her 79th birthday, I never got to say goodbye or tell her I love her, and that really hurt. She was my last-and only grandparent I have ever met. I was pretty depressed, it was a lot for me to handle. Late October I got invited to a party a bunch of my friends were going to. I didn’t really know a lot of the girls that were going, so I knew it would be fun to meet new people. In the days leading up to that party I told a bunch of my friends “I want to get really drunk, and reset my life”. Probably not the greatest way to think, but we teenagers don’t think the best lol. Lo and behold that is exactly what happened…
While drunk, this girl and I who I had never talked to before started talking, and we hit it off. It was great, granted we were both drunk, but we connected really well and I remember getting hugs and holding her hand (such a thug I know). Her name is Chloe, a cute quiet girl who I have always known to be quite the good looker (the girl holding the drink in this pic, taken that night actually http://a1.sphotos.ak.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ak-ash4/304087_2428977597853_1053967023_2818711_1736605125_n.jpg ). She is a really shy girl to people she doesn’t know, and that night seemed like a glimpse into the potential future. To make a long story short, we started talking a lot and we got to know each other really well, and most importantly we got along really well. We had a similar taste in music which blew me away, I got along well with her friends and likewise her to mine, everything was perfect. The day I finally asked her out was the greatest day of my life. We both got our first kisses out on her balcony at around midnight; it was fairytale perfect, way more than I could have ever dreamed of. Everything was great, we would spend time together at school when we could, outside of school, hang out every weekend and do stuff with her friends, one of my good friends started dating Chloe’s best friend, so that was fun. Her mom loved me and I got along with her grandparents and sisters great. Everything was absolutely perfect. Christmas, New Years, my birthday in January, Valentine’s Day, and just normal week days or weekends, everything was perfect. I felt like I really loved her, and wanted to tell her that soon. I never had to pretend to be someone else or pretend to like the things she liked. I was 100% comfortable and myself 24/7. I was genuinely interested in her and she felt the same towards me, or so I thought.
(Sorry this is getting so long)
She called me one day in early March and asked if we could talk, I didn’t want to think it was what the normal “we need to talk” sort of thing. She said that stuff has been really stressful with her, but I can’t remember exactly what she said. She’s a very busy girl, looking after her grandma, mom, sister at the time, work, involved in numerous school activities, a tough semester class wise, she was under a lot of stress and I knew and respected that, I wanted her to feel as I was an escape, not something that added more. She said she wanted to talk about it more, which made me think “okay, she wants to work out whatever this problem is, no problem ”. Well unfortunately I was wrong. We had a long conversation over the phone, and she broke up with me. It was a lot of silence because I didn’t know what to say back to her. When the phone call ended, I felt devastated. The high I was on got stronger the longer we were dating and it felt like out of the blue it was gone. Then my “friends” made light of the situation, which really pissed me off even more, one said “now you can finally get laid” on my facebook relationship status once I put it back to single. I deleted it as soon as I saw it but I'm sure a bunch of people saw it in the 15 minutes leading up to me deleting it. The girl of my dreams broke up with me, and I'm heartbroken.
Sorry for the very excessive back-story Woody, but here is my real situation. I’m heartbroken. It’s been over a month since she broke up with me, and I miss her every day. All the people I’ve talked to have said “it will get better in time”, and I agree with that, but so far I feel like no progress has been made. Chloe and I have talked since, but because she’s not a very emotionally open person I don’t get a lot of stuff out and I feel like our conversations are me blabbering on and her saying the same stuff. I miss her, but I’m not looking for her to take me back, our relationship is over. She said that she feels bad that I'm so heartbroken and I really do believe her. I’ve tried to put it out of my head as much as possible but it’s hard when some of the assholes I hang out with bring it up and make jokes, or I see her at school and she doesn’t really look at me. She’s not a bitch, she’s a very mature person who I looked up to (and still do). I want to get over my feelings for her, they haven’t faded and I still dream about her almost every night. She said when I'm ready to be friends that she’s there, and I’m really thankful for that. But it’s hard to talk to her when I'm still in love with her. I want to get over her and be able to talk to her how we used to and go back to being friends, she’s such an amazing person, I never want her out if my life. She is responsible for making my life the best it’s ever been, and I really hate myself for being like this the past month and a bit. I’ve tried dealing with it in a few different ways, and as of recently I’ve had a REALLY short temper. I'm normally a calm mannered person but this has taken up a large amount of space in my head and I have no tolerance for anything it seems anymore. I've gotten in heated arguments with my parents, my grades have been slipping, which has lead to me not being very happy with myself. Please Woody, I would really appreciate your opinion on this situation, I have been meaning to write to you for a while about this, any response-mail Monday or just personal would be very much appreciated Sorry for the long message again, I hope you don’t mind
lemonhead75 Solstice Legend
Number of posts : 2107 Age : 30 Location : Napoleon, Ohio Registration date : 2008-12-12
Subject: Re: Random Discussion Thread IV Tue Apr 24, 2012 2:24 pm
[quote="Jake Poulin"]Sorry about my rage quit last friday, My last nerve was struck. I Just need to get away from it for a while. it's just not fun for me anymore and it's just become a headache. I didn't want to leave here for good, I just think it's best for me to take a leave of duty. I shouldn't have done it like that and I know I've rubbed some of you guys the the wrong way. /[quote]
I know that feel bro. Not that anyone gives a fuck. Its just hilarious when someone cracks.
bakes991 Admin
Number of posts : 4561 Location : Losing my mind on the internet. Registration date : 2008-12-11
Subject: Re: Random Discussion Thread IV Tue Apr 24, 2012 2:30 pm
Despite waking up at 3 PM, today (well yesterday technically now) was a good day. Got a couple of things done that needed to be done, and cleared up some things that needed to be cleared up here.
Also Shawn, read the whole letter, hopefully you get some answers, maybe he knows exactly what you are going through and can get you over the hump, so to speak.
Jake_Ace Solstice Legend
Number of posts : 2800 Age : 29 Location : Rumford, Maine Registration date : 2009-09-25
Subject: Re: Random Discussion Thread IV Tue Apr 24, 2012 10:47 pm
Thanks for understanding Shawn, I know what you're going through is a lot harder to deal with.
bakes991 Admin
Number of posts : 4561 Location : Losing my mind on the internet. Registration date : 2008-12-11
Subject: Re: Random Discussion Thread IV Tue Apr 24, 2012 11:18 pm
Things you learn pulling an all-nighter and staying on TS all night:
-Auz appears to move around a lot in his sleep, causing ear rape every 5 minutes... -Austrailians like to try to troll TS at 8:30 -Ian randomly showed up on TS, too...
Hmmm.... lol
djman14 Street Stock Racer
Number of posts : 101 Age : 30 Location : Alabama Registration date : 2012-03-06
Subject: Re: Random Discussion Thread IV Wed Apr 25, 2012 1:10 am
Shawn I know you aren't a religons person, but I just wanted to tell you that I have been praying for you and hoping everything gets better.
djman14 Street Stock Racer
Number of posts : 101 Age : 30 Location : Alabama Registration date : 2012-03-06
Subject: Re: Random Discussion Thread IV Thu Apr 26, 2012 12:48 am
So I think next friday im going to check out of school and go to the arca race at dega.
lemonhead75 Solstice Legend
Number of posts : 2107 Age : 30 Location : Napoleon, Ohio Registration date : 2008-12-12
Subject: Re: Random Discussion Thread IV Thu Apr 26, 2012 6:00 am
djman14 wrote:
So I think next friday im going to check out of school and go to the arca race at dega.
I'll be at the ARCA race after that in Toledo
Matt_Emerson29 Moderator
Number of posts : 1823 Registration date : 2010-06-21
Subject: Re: Random Discussion Thread IV Thu Apr 26, 2012 6:31 am
Heading out to Richmond tomorrow for the K&N and Late Model race. Got a pit pass as well
Chin Server Manager
Number of posts : 678 Age : 30 Registration date : 2011-11-06
Subject: Re: Random Discussion Thread IV Thu Apr 26, 2012 7:05 am
Finally got my computer back running. 32 GB of RAM and a new motherboard.
NascarManiaco99 USAR Late Model Racer
Number of posts : 285 Age : 28 Location : São Paulo - SP - Brazil Registration date : 2008-12-12
Subject: Re: Random Discussion Thread IV Thu Apr 26, 2012 11:26 am
Shawn_82 wrote:
Sorry to repost, I don't want this to be glazed over (:
Shawn_82 wrote:
Glad to hear Jake. I know what it feels like to be overwhlemed with stuff and not to turn it on me but I wish I could just sit back and take a breather like you. Sometimes you're going to be in deep water and all you need is another breath to get back into it. Good on you, no respect lost.
Side note about me, Just tonight, I wrote to a youtuber WoodysGamertag https://www.youtube.com/user/WoodysGamertag. He has a feature on Monday called Mail Mondays, where he takes questions from users and gives advice / his opinion on things. Most of it is teenage stuff like sex, lasting longer, relationships, but there's some serious stuff too. I highly recommend you all watch his videos and if you're interested in COD commentaries he's great for that too. Anyway, I wrote to him about my situation I'm going through right now with Chloe. It's a much calmer message than what I've written on here over the past little while, so if any of you care enough I would appreciate if you read what I had to say. I feel like I'm a good writer and can get the reader to view my opinion good.
Spoiler:
Hey Woody. Some quick back-story on me. I have never been interested in COD or any first person shooters, your channel was linked to me by a friend of mine who said I should watch your mail Mondays. And now I have something to look forward to every Monday, thank you very much, I love your advice/opinion pieces
Now for the question.. (I will try to keep it as short as possible, but a fair warning I can write a lot :$)
I am a 17 year old male, Grade 11 high school student (I’m from Canada btw). I have watched pretty much all of your mail Monday videos. Most involve sex, bullies, jobs, parents, and most of all relationships. A lot are standard how do I ask out girl x and stuff, which is really really helpful and your advice is amazing, but that's all the happy puppy love beginning. What about the end? I feel like the aftermath should be apart too, it would greatly help me and a bunch of others too I’m sure Feel free to edit this down a lot for Mail Monday if you choose to feature it, but I feel like the back-story is important.
So my life was at an all time low from June-October. To summarize quickly, I got dumped in June, I got over her fast but it still sucked. I race go karts, and being from a lower class family it's tough on our finances (in and out of debt), and I had terrible luck and got injured mid August. When I got back from that entire week of racing, my uncle who had cancer passed away the day I got back. School started in September, and my first period teacher was a bitch to understate, and I wasn’t doing as well as I would have hoped in my classes, so school wasn’t as enjoyable. Then out of nowhere, my grandma passed away the day after her 79th birthday, I never got to say goodbye or tell her I love her, and that really hurt. She was my last-and only grandparent I have ever met. I was pretty depressed, it was a lot for me to handle. Late October I got invited to a party a bunch of my friends were going to. I didn’t really know a lot of the girls that were going, so I knew it would be fun to meet new people. In the days leading up to that party I told a bunch of my friends “I want to get really drunk, and reset my life”. Probably not the greatest way to think, but we teenagers don’t think the best lol. Lo and behold that is exactly what happened…
While drunk, this girl and I who I had never talked to before started talking, and we hit it off. It was great, granted we were both drunk, but we connected really well and I remember getting hugs and holding her hand (such a thug I know). Her name is Chloe, a cute quiet girl who I have always known to be quite the good looker (the girl holding the drink in this pic, taken that night actually http://a1.sphotos.ak.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ak-ash4/304087_2428977597853_1053967023_2818711_1736605125_n.jpg ). She is a really shy girl to people she doesn’t know, and that night seemed like a glimpse into the potential future. To make a long story short, we started talking a lot and we got to know each other really well, and most importantly we got along really well. We had a similar taste in music which blew me away, I got along well with her friends and likewise her to mine, everything was perfect. The day I finally asked her out was the greatest day of my life. We both got our first kisses out on her balcony at around midnight; it was fairytale perfect, way more than I could have ever dreamed of. Everything was great, we would spend time together at school when we could, outside of school, hang out every weekend and do stuff with her friends, one of my good friends started dating Chloe’s best friend, so that was fun. Her mom loved me and I got along with her grandparents and sisters great. Everything was absolutely perfect. Christmas, New Years, my birthday in January, Valentine’s Day, and just normal week days or weekends, everything was perfect. I felt like I really loved her, and wanted to tell her that soon. I never had to pretend to be someone else or pretend to like the things she liked. I was 100% comfortable and myself 24/7. I was genuinely interested in her and she felt the same towards me, or so I thought.
(Sorry this is getting so long)
She called me one day in early March and asked if we could talk, I didn’t want to think it was what the normal “we need to talk” sort of thing. She said that stuff has been really stressful with her, but I can’t remember exactly what she said. She’s a very busy girl, looking after her grandma, mom, sister at the time, work, involved in numerous school activities, a tough semester class wise, she was under a lot of stress and I knew and respected that, I wanted her to feel as I was an escape, not something that added more. She said she wanted to talk about it more, which made me think “okay, she wants to work out whatever this problem is, no problem ”. Well unfortunately I was wrong. We had a long conversation over the phone, and she broke up with me. It was a lot of silence because I didn’t know what to say back to her. When the phone call ended, I felt devastated. The high I was on got stronger the longer we were dating and it felt like out of the blue it was gone. Then my “friends” made light of the situation, which really pissed me off even more, one said “now you can finally get laid” on my facebook relationship status once I put it back to single. I deleted it as soon as I saw it but I'm sure a bunch of people saw it in the 15 minutes leading up to me deleting it. The girl of my dreams broke up with me, and I'm heartbroken.
Sorry for the very excessive back-story Woody, but here is my real situation. I’m heartbroken. It’s been over a month since she broke up with me, and I miss her every day. All the people I’ve talked to have said “it will get better in time”, and I agree with that, but so far I feel like no progress has been made. Chloe and I have talked since, but because she’s not a very emotionally open person I don’t get a lot of stuff out and I feel like our conversations are me blabbering on and her saying the same stuff. I miss her, but I’m not looking for her to take me back, our relationship is over. She said that she feels bad that I'm so heartbroken and I really do believe her. I’ve tried to put it out of my head as much as possible but it’s hard when some of the assholes I hang out with bring it up and make jokes, or I see her at school and she doesn’t really look at me. She’s not a bitch, she’s a very mature person who I looked up to (and still do). I want to get over my feelings for her, they haven’t faded and I still dream about her almost every night. She said when I'm ready to be friends that she’s there, and I’m really thankful for that. But it’s hard to talk to her when I'm still in love with her. I want to get over her and be able to talk to her how we used to and go back to being friends, she’s such an amazing person, I never want her out if my life. She is responsible for making my life the best it’s ever been, and I really hate myself for being like this the past month and a bit. I’ve tried dealing with it in a few different ways, and as of recently I’ve had a REALLY short temper. I'm normally a calm mannered person but this has taken up a large amount of space in my head and I have no tolerance for anything it seems anymore. I've gotten in heated arguments with my parents, my grades have been slipping, which has lead to me not being very happy with myself. Please Woody, I would really appreciate your opinion on this situation, I have been meaning to write to you for a while about this, any response-mail Monday or just personal would be very much appreciated Sorry for the long message again, I hope you don’t mind
You passing thru a hard time, I know how hard it is, but try to let it go. And let us know the answer from Woody too, maybe with another opnion we can try to help you even more. It's really bad to see you this bad. You always have helped everyone.
lemonhead75 Solstice Legend
Number of posts : 2107 Age : 30 Location : Napoleon, Ohio Registration date : 2008-12-12
Subject: Re: Random Discussion Thread IV Fri Apr 27, 2012 9:37 pm
So it looks like I will graduate after all
Jake_Ace Solstice Legend
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Subject: Re: Random Discussion Thread IV Fri Apr 27, 2012 9:59 pm
I wonder why America is ranked like 20th in the world for education
Keiichi Nakamura Pedobear
Number of posts : 341 Age : 30 Registration date : 2010-09-13
Subject: Re: Random Discussion Thread IV Sat Apr 28, 2012 4:10 am
Jake Poulin wrote:
I wonder why America is ranked like 20th in the world for education
”. Well unfortunately I was wrong. We had a long conversation over the phone, and she broke up with me. It was a lot of silence because I didn’t know what to say back to her. When the phone call ended, I felt devastated. The high I was on got stronger the longer we were dating and it felt like out of the blue it was gone. Then my “friends” made light of the situation, which really pissed me off even more, one said “now you can finally get laid” on my facebook relationship status once I put it back to single. I deleted it as soon as I saw it but I'm sure a bunch of people saw it in the 15 minutes leading up to me deleting it. The girl of my dreams broke up with me, and I'm heartbroken.
