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PostSubject: Re: Random Discussion Thread IV   Mon May 21, 2012 6:01 pm

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PostSubject: Re: Random Discussion Thread IV   Mon May 21, 2012 10:53 pm

I feel like it was a good thing that I left when I did.

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PostSubject: Re: Random Discussion Thread IV   Tue May 22, 2012 3:30 am

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PostSubject: Re: Random Discussion Thread IV   Tue May 22, 2012 3:40 am

Stephen Black wrote:
Hey, guys.

You always come back when we were wondering where ya went haha.

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PostSubject: Re: Random Discussion Thread IV   Tue May 22, 2012 3:47 am

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Hey, guys.

It seems that I'm not the only one that came back. Laughing

Special day for me! Very Happy
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PostSubject: Re: Random Discussion Thread IV   Tue May 22, 2012 4:33 am

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Stephen Black wrote:
Hey, guys.

You always come back when we were wondering where ya went haha.
Haven't had internet since January.. We moved and now we're getting internet tomorrow. Very Happy

I'm gonna be busy with football more this summer though. haha
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PostSubject: Re: Random Discussion Thread IV   Tue May 22, 2012 4:56 am

HE IS ALIVE!

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PostSubject: Re: Random Discussion Thread IV   Tue May 22, 2012 5:56 am

YAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAY
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PostSubject: Re: Random Discussion Thread IV   Tue May 22, 2012 3:47 pm

I've been keeping my mouth shut here, an spending more time on here to clear my mind, but just an update if anyone cares I'm still in the same boat as before emotionally. And I know howcto fix that. I need to be selfish and become an asshole. This soft sensitive person may be fine and interesting at first but i always end up on the short end of this shit and hurt and heartbroken, ALWAYS. I need to become an asshole in real life. Sorry if that transfers to here in any way. I've been depressed and smoking and drinking too much, this is less harmful to me. /selfish
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PostSubject: Re: Random Discussion Thread IV   Tue May 22, 2012 4:00 pm

You've been alright on here, I haven't notice anything different really.

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PostSubject: Re: Random Discussion Thread IV   Tue May 22, 2012 4:08 pm

I know. I need to change though
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PostSubject: Re: Random Discussion Thread IV   Tue May 22, 2012 6:23 pm

You don't have to do a 100% change, but some changes may need to be made. You may have to be selective who you are nice to. If someone helps you back, then I think its ok to be nice around em, I think you would then need to toughen the mind up to all people outside of those who are helping you.
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PostSubject: Re: Random Discussion Thread IV   Wed May 23, 2012 12:34 pm

Stephen Black wrote:

I'm gonna be busy with football more this summer though. haha
Are you still playing for that Division II College? lol
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PostSubject: Re: Random Discussion Thread IV   Wed May 23, 2012 3:27 pm

One of my tweets was on Sportscenter today.

My dream has come true. lol
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PostSubject: Re: Random Discussion Thread IV   Wed May 23, 2012 8:33 pm

I sat down tonight and did somet thinking, as I can only think clearly at night. I've decided to just say this.

Sometimes I can't handle the real world or the internet. Every day, no matter where I go, I hear the same things. I have never had any one person say anything positive about me while I spend every day hearing every negative pointed out twice. I can't think of any reason anyone else should like me, because I don't like myself.

There is such a huge difference between who I am and who people think I am. In real life, I can't be who I am. I go wherever every day and hear hurtful comments or jokes, whether they are meant to be hurtful or not. I cannot bear to be such a disappointment to my family. I'm everything they never wanted in their only son. If I opened myself up, I would be kicked out right now and living on the streets.

I cannot tell my closest friends because I have none. No matter what social interaction it is, I do it wrong. I'm too clingy or too distant or annoying or just plane unlikable. I've managed to drive away everyone I care about, not that they ever cared that much about me. My lifeh as been reduced to such a hollow shell that a minor little thing represents some kind of magical bond to me.

I try so hard to be likable that who I am gets lost. You guys joke about me all the time, so I try to go along with it. If I get upset at your jokes, I'm being a whiner. If I go along with them, I feel creepy.

After what Jake said to me earlier, I went and actually cried for the first time since I broke my arm about 9 years ago. It's not that I'm never sad, I just cant cry. I don't know why.

I don't understand the need for offensive language here. I never have. I don't understand why we need to say "nigger", "faggot", or anything like that around here. There are so many more words to pick from.

Everyone acts like they know me, and when I try to do anything to express who I am it is ignored. All you ever remember about me is that I'm gay and I drive bad. And when I do things like this, I realize that no one gives a fuck or has ever given a fuck about me, what I think, or how I feel about anything at all.
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PostSubject: Re: Random Discussion Thread IV   Thu May 24, 2012 2:22 am

This is what I've been telling you Nick. You have spent years running from and scared of who you are. You have been basically, torturing yourself mentally for basically 4-5 years over that...I dont know why everyone doesnt seem to get that. We know you aren't a bad guy.


Its because you feel so bad about yourself that every line said by you or someone else worries you. I've been like that before. Still am sometimes. You have to like yourself. You have to have some level of self confidence. Everyone here can tell you that. You have to get comfortable around people, but its hard when you feel that bad about yourself. I dont think a lot of people here know the pressure of having a secret that if your parents found out, they would throw you out for. Plus the rediculous rednecks that I hear go to your school. But you just can't try and be someone else.

Anyone else agree?

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PostSubject: Re: Random Discussion Thread IV   Thu May 24, 2012 3:06 am

lemonhead, when you grow up, this is gonna be your car.

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PostSubject: Re: Random Discussion Thread IV   Thu May 24, 2012 4:14 am

As far as self confidence goes... You're not going to function very well without it, but it's very possible to achieve it. It just takes some time, I know I had to fight through it the past 2 years and I feel great now that I did it. You also cannot worry about what people say about you unless they are your close friends. Because if you do, you're just going to end up back at the starting gate.

You should never even be a try-hard when it comes to being likeable, because usually in the end you aren't liked very well. If you are your self, then people can at least decide if they like ya for who you are, not for what you're trying to be.

But if what Jake told you yesterday really upset you that bad, you either need to grow a thicker skin or leave from the group. You've had enough time by now to choose that, and if you wanna show you're a strong person, you will go with growing a thick skin.

As far as the language stuff goes, it can get a bit overboard at times, but most of the time it is just words. Most of the people on here don't actually put any meaning behind the words and that's when they usually hurt the most is when they do, which is very rare.

But in the end, the only person you got is yourself, that's the way it is for everybody and when you have people that care about you and help you through the motions, well, that's just a awesome bonus in life.

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PostSubject: Re: Random Discussion Thread IV   Thu May 24, 2012 4:57 am

Do what Caleb says and you'll be fine. You can't please everyone, let the people who don't like you not like you, whatever. Keep the people who like you and who can tolerate you close as those are the only people you need to associate yourself with.

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PostSubject: Re: Random Discussion Thread IV   Thu May 24, 2012 4:57 am

Only you can change you. Don't go and try to change who you are because you think people don't like that person.

I've never, and I literally mean never had a problem with you. In sim racing, EVERYBODY has done something over the top retarded at least once. You've never done anything so terrible to deserve ridicule all the time. But some people just think of it as a running joke.

We've always had that problem, mostly with new people. People don't give them the chance to fix what's wrong they just berate them.

I actually do like you Nick. I just wish you'd make up your mind. Do you want to be part of the group.

This group insults each other constantly. There's always fights between members. Whether they last one night or go on for months. That's just the way it is around here, unfortunately.

And I've always been bothered by some of the language like you said. I know it's the internet, so there's no consequences, but I feel uncomfortable using some of it even in example.

I've used the word 'fag' and 'faggot' before but never directed at one single person and never in hate. Others have though. They might not even realize what they said. It's "just" another word to them.
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PostSubject: Re: Random Discussion Thread IV   Thu May 24, 2012 5:51 am

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This group insults each other constantly. There's always fights between members. Whether they last one night or go on for months. That's just the way it is around here, unfortunately.

It would be a boring world if it wasn't like that. I know theres just so long I could go being all serious before I explode and say I can't take it anymore. Fuck you !!!...and you...and you. I just don't wanna live in a world where everyone is so serious and no one insults anyone.

I don't want to live in a world like THIS:
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PostSubject: Re: Random Discussion Thread IV   Thu May 24, 2012 5:56 am

It can be fun. The highlights of my high school days were getting into the most retarded arguments with friends. Insulting them constantly. But that's what we did. We just had fun with it. If somebody makes a crack at me, and it's funny, sometimes you just have to laugh.

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PostSubject: Re: Random Discussion Thread IV   Thu May 24, 2012 6:31 am

lol some dumbass called to give me some tech support shit for my computer claiming that he works for all windows computers and that he recieved an error from my computer

so i asked: what computer do i use?
guy was speechless

then: do you work for microsoft:
guy said no

i hanged up. trololol scamfailed

and oh btw, the caller id said 'anonymous'
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PostSubject: Re: Random Discussion Thread IV   Thu May 24, 2012 10:02 am

Nick, don't ever change who you are to please anyone else. You only can be you. People are going to like you and some people aren't, just the way it goes. But changing yourself is going to make anything better. Being you makes you unique. And one person doesn't like you, so what. That doesn't change the fact that you are still awesome in someone's eyes. We've all got our weird traits about us, and our likes and dislikes. Don't let anyone ever tell you that you're a bag of crap or whatever, because you're not. You got a whole life ahead of you to make friends and do whatever you want. And they're right, you've got to like yourself before anyone else can. Because pretending to be someone you're not is going to get you no where, and people can see fake. So I guess, just be who you are. And if people don't like Nick Khars, then screw them.

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PostSubject: Re: Random Discussion Thread IV   Thu May 24, 2012 10:09 am

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So I guess, just be who you are. And if people don't like Nick Khars, then screw them.

What about Nick Kahrs?

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